(NU) - Are you a traditional woman waiting for Prince Charming to come and sweep you off your feet? Well, you may be waiting for a while if you don't change your rules and take control of your dating destiny. That's the point of the ultimate single woman's guide by author Jennifer Bawden called, "Get A Life, Then Get a Man," released last year by Penguin Putnam. Bawden first teaches you how to enjoy being single, focus on your goals and unleash your confidence. Then she shows you how to take a proactive approach to all areas of your life - especially in dating and love.
Why wait for a man to make the first move when you can do it yourself?
You go to a bar and begin "the hunt." You walk the room, isolating the men who interest you by identifying certain types to avoid. Then you approach men one by one, starting the conversations with just the right sex appeal and closing the chats by getting their phone numbers. Before you know it, you'll have more dates than you think you can handle. But you'll be able to manage it because Bawden teaches you how to juggle your social calendar while playing the field.
Worried about accidentally dousing those new flames? Don't be. Bawden teaches you how to overcome your fear of rejection and tells you how to avoid doing the 15 things that most women do that turn men off - like gossiping, nagging, chronic complaining and dwelling on past relationships.
If you want to progress from dating to finding a man worth marrying, you can't go wrong with Bawden's book. After all, more than 30 weddings and engagements have resulted from dating advice she's given to her friends.
So learn how to boost your self-esteem and reveal your true inner passion and power to get men excited about you. (Just think: If you get this easy-to-read, self-help book now, you'll be able to reel them in just in time for Valentine's Day.)
"Get a Life, Then Get a Man" is available at JenniferBawden.com, Amazon.com or any local bookstore. The sooner you pick up a copy, the sooner you'll be on your way to a better self - and then be walking down the aisle with the man of your dreams.